Not that intimidating

Posted by / 20-Jul-2019 05:26

Not that intimidating

It all started with my father who, trying his hardest to console a weepy teenager who didn’t have a date to prom, told me that it wasn’t my fault that men didn’t want to date me. He totally meant it as a compliment — he’d raised a strong, outspoken young woman, and he knew it — so I tried to take it as such.

But as I got older, and the men I’d date started calling me intimidating as a way to weasel out of the situation we were in, I realized that the opposite sex didn’t always see intimidation as a positive thing.

And in talking to my queer friends, I found that this phenomenon seems to mainly occur in heterosexual relationships.

The queer men and women I spoke to had never been given the excuse of intimidation as the reason why they weren’t finding dates (though, admittedly, my findings are 100% anecdotal).

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I’m independent — I live alone, I support myself, and I don’t need anyone to help me change a lightbulb.

(Yes, this is one of the things certain men found intimidating.) And I like these parts of myself a lot.

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Unfortunately, that wasn’t the case for me a few years ago.